As you all know from my post on 30th September, I have the honour of providing guest blog contributions to the awesome Pink Wedding Venues who supply the LGBT community with dependable wedding planning help and advice. Here is an exert from my most recent contribution…
Our “Guest Blogger” – Hazel from “IDOONABUDGET” has, very kindly, shared some ideas on what to do regarding your surnames once you’ve “tied the knot” – who’s name do you choose? Do you keep your own surname? Take that of your partner? Have a read below for some great ideas – we LOVE the idea of “Meshing” – sounds like fun trying to make up a name!
Have you thought about what you and your partner are going to do with your surnames upon getting married?
Among the numerous traditions surrounding marriage one of the big ones is the bride renouncing her last name and taking her husbands. But how does this translate to same-sex weddings? Especially as increasing numbers of heterosexual women are choosing not to take their husbands name and more heterosexual men are opting to take their wives name or double barrel with her.
What should you do with your last name when you get married?
Even though it may be customary for same sex couples to keep their own surnames, there are many other options available that may be perfect for you. The truth is the same options are available to same sex couples as to heterosexual couples when getting married. Whether you decide to keep your own names, both change or have just one of you change your name, there is no right or wrong, just what is right for you….